HEY, I'M TREVOR
Before we talk about mentoring, let me tell you a little about me.
I’m a father of five—my calling, my responsibility, and my legacy.
I’ve been through the fire—divorced and now remarried to my incredible wife, Bridgett.
Together, we’re raising our newborn son, Maverick, and building a legacy grounded in faith, family, purpose, and healthy relationships.
I’m not impressed by money, fame, or hustle.
Don’t get me wrong—I respect the grit it takes to build success.
But the things that truly matter are built on trust, love, and purpose, not applause or bank accounts.
What does impress me?
A man who’s willing to confront the gaps in his relationships, rediscover his God-given purpose, and build a life that reflects the Kingdom.
Above wealth or status, my life is fully submitted to God.
My ultimate goal is to live a life that pleases Him.
Whether you're running a multimillion-dollar enterprise or leading in your community, the pressure to excel never lets up.
True leadership doesn’t come from hustle—it starts within.
If hustle and grind define your view of success and you’re unwilling to confront what’s missing, I’m not the mentor for you.
But if you’re ready to unlock God’s power, align with His purpose, build meaningful relationships, and live in freedom, keep reading.
I’VE HEARD YOU HELP PEOPLE FIND PURPOSE, BUILD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS, AND TAP INTO THE POWER OF GOD.
I had a burning bush moment in the fall of 2006.
I’ve spent nearly three decades walking this path, and helping others navigate it has become my passion.
Everyone’s journey to aligning with a greater purpose and achieving fulfillment is unique.
Here’s my story.
THE FIRE THAT STARTED IT ALL
When my first son was born, everything changed.
I found God in my early 20's and felt a deep desire to create a life I could be proud of—a legacy worth leaving behind.
Growing up, I didn’t have an emotionally engaged father or one who guided me in spiritual or business matters.
I knew I wanted to break that cycle and create something different for my own family.
That meant learning how to be a father, husband, spiritual leader, and successful in business—all on my own.
And that’s exactly what I set out to do.
Shortly out of highschool I became a firefighter.
I excelled, graduating at the top of my class in the training academy and becoming the youngest lieutenant in my department.
I owned a thriving small business, served as a leader in the church, and managed to balance life as a husband and father to four young kids.
On the outside, it looked like I had it all together.
But inside, I was dying.
I didn’t find the fire—it found me.
I had just moved my family from Washington State to Georgia to pursue a vision God had placed on my heart after retiring from the fire department and selling my small business.
I was invited to attend a leadership conference in Israel to meet business and government leaders, including the Prime Minister. Before the trip, three friends and I gathered for a night of prayer in a cabin in the North Georgia mountains.
What started as a simple evening of seeking God turned into something supernatural.
As we pulled up, my friend Gary said he had received a text from a friend who was praying for us.
She said the Lord wanted us to leave our keys and wallets on the front porch when we went inside, surrendering what represented control in our lives.
So we did.
When we entered the cabin, I went to drop my bags in my room and noticed a couple of 6’ walking sticks leaning up against the wall in the corner.
Not thinking much about them, I continued upstairs for prayer, where worship music was playing, and a bottle of wine had just been opened to take communion.
A SUPERNATURAL ENCOUNTER
As we were individually praying, I felt God telling me to go downstairs and grab one of those sticks.
I was 31 and still fairly young in my faith, often questioning if and how I heard God’s voice.
I wasn’t overly confident that this was God, but I didn’t see how it could have been my thought, so I walked downstairs to grab one of the sticks.
As I grabbed it, I asked God, “Now what?”
I felt that He was instructing us all to hold onto it while we prayed.
I walked upstairs and awkwardly said, “I don’t know for sure, but I think God wants us to all hold onto this stick while we pray.”
They said, “Well, we’re here to pray, so let’s do it!”
We all walked to the center of the room and grabbed hold of the stick.
As we did, all of a sudden, a fire supernaturally ignited in the cabin’s fireplace!
At the exact same time, my friend Gary received a text from the woman who was praying for us on our trip.
The text simply said, “The Lord says to expect angelic visitations today.”
I was dumbfounded.
The weight and presence of God in the room were palpable, to the point that we all took our shoes off—thinking of Moses and the burning bush—and felt like we were standing on holy ground.
I knew what was happening was impossible in the natural.
This experience was in direct response to a request I had made that God would confirm the calling He had placed in my heart a year earlier.
The fire burned for about 10 minutes and then went out.
We sat down on the couch in awe of what had just happened.
Gary then said, “Guys, the most important thing for us is that we hear the Lord.”
At that moment, the fire burst into flames for about 10 seconds and then went out again.
GRINDING—AND Losing Myself
FROM FIRE TO WILDERNESS
I was hustling and grinding to keep everything afloat, but it was taking a toll on me.
Church felt like a routine, and I wasn’t experiencing the supernatural power of God I read about in Scripture.
I wanted to walk with God like Enoch and Moses.
I had a deep desire to create a legacy— spiritually and in business.
But those two goals seemed more and more out of sync each day.
The little time I had outside of the fire station and my business was drained by my commitments to church, leaving almost nothing for my family or spending consistent, dedicated time with the Lord.
I was working hard to get somewhere, but I didn't have a map.
I wasn’t fulfilled or experiencing the power of God I longed for.
When I did make time to pray, God began revealing deeper truths about His Kingdom.
I was sure the was more even though I hadn't experienced it.
Meanwhile, my schedule was relentless.
I worked 24-hour shifts at the fire station, poured concrete curbing until evening, handled bids until dark, and then tackled paperwork until midnight—only to wake up and be back on shift before 8 a.m. the next day.
Wash, rinse, repeat.
Sundays? Completely consumed by church activities.
It was unsustainable.
In the midst of the chaos, God gave me a vision—a calling to step into a higher purpose.
It was a glimpse of the legacy I longed to leave for my family: a global mentorship network and resource community.
That vision became my hope for purpose.
After that encounter, I thought everything would fall into place. Instead, I faced one of the hardest seasons of my life.
One year later, I was bankrupt, homeless with a wife and four kids to support, and facing an identity crisis.
For the next 12 years, I wrestled with doubt, failure, and trials that tested my faith and purpose.
While I experienced professional success, nothing felt aligned with the calling God placed on my life.
It was a season of refining—a time when God stripped away the distractions and deepened my dependence on Him.
Burning The Ships—and Losing It All
RISING INTO MY CALLING
Determined to bring the vision to life, I retired from the fire department, sold my business, and invested heavily in ventures I believed would fund God’s calling.
But my trust was misplaced.
A pastor stole $250,000, and his business partner was convicted of wire fraud involving $2.5 million of our investments.
The betrayal shattered relationships and left me bankrupt, homeless, and broken.
It all came to a head the day after Christmas 2007.
I was up early when I saw the repo man pull into the driveway to tow our last vehicle away.
Two weeks away from eviction, with a negative bank account, no way to provide for my wife and four young kids, and nowhere to turn.
I lost everything—my reputation, my confidence, and the identity I had built as a successful businessman, firefighter, husband, and father.
I was broken, afraid, and angry.
Worse, I realized I had become the man I never wanted to be: a workaholic father prioritizing hustle over meaningful connection with my family.
The fire in that cabin wasn’t just a supernatural sign—it was a commissioning.
It confirmed the call God placed on my heart a year earlier: to be a messenger for the Kingdom and to build a global discipleship network outside the confines of institutional religion, guiding people to the simplicity and purity of devotion to Christ.
Now, that same fire burns in me as I help others ignite their own, stepping boldly into their God-given identity and purpose.
Whether you're leading the masses, a small team, or just your family—there are people depending on you to rise, so they can, too.
Hard Truth—and the Fight to Rebuild
The next 15 years were a battle for survival—on every level.
There were high highs and low lows.
I made a lot of money, and I lost a lot of money.
I learned a ton about the Kingdom of God and experienced many powerful encounters, including a supernatural fire spontaneously combusting during prayer—like Moses and the burning bush.
I've seen healing many times from prayer, and I've seen God move in tangible ways more times than I can count.
I was good in business and became a top performer every company I went to, often being recruited to new start-ups.
But for some reason my dream was always just out of reach.
I tried to embody the man I intellectually knew I was meant to be—bold, powerful, and certain—but in my heart, something was missing.
I kept falling into the same destructive patterns of hustle and grind, never rising to my full potential, building things up only to burn them down.
I lost focus on God’s true calling for me several times and kept getting distracted by joining someone else’s vision.
In hindsight, it was the safer route, or so I thought—being a cog in the wheel is easier than being the axle holding everything together.
This pattern eventually led to a broken family, divorce, and a disconnection from my kids that I’m still working to rebuild today.
It wasn’t until I hit rock bottom again that I finally surrendered.
I set boundaries, stood firm in what I knew was true, and aligned myself with God’s calling instead of relying on my own strength.
The real change came when I fully accepted who I am and what I’m capable of in connection with God.
That’s when things began to shift.
I remarried, hired a savage mentor who challenged me to see myself clearly, and started over entirely—as a father to a newborn son, a husband, and a businessman.
Living in Alignment
Now, I approach life differently.
I’ve embraced the fact that God’s Kingdom doesn’t operate through hustle and grind but through communion, revelation, and consistency rooted in identity.
Ironically, back in 2005, God had given me this concept now known as The Law of Ability, but it took nearly 20 years of trials, failures, and self-discovery to fully understand and apply that revelation to my own life.
Now, on the other side of those struggles, I’m living in alignment with God’s plans. I’ve embraced my true identity, and I’m finally fulfilling the purpose He placed on my heart years ago—helping others overcome the same battles I’ve already faced.
There are very few men today with a father’s heart who genuinely want to see others win.
It’s rare, but it’s desperately needed in this generation.
From My Journey to Yours
I've walked through fire for three decades—literally during the first as a firefighter, and figuratively through the next two—and I have the battle scars to prove it.
Those scars, however, come with hard-earned wisdom and perspective that can change everything—not just for me, but for those I lead.
What you’re reading today is the result of nearly 30 years of trials, hardships, and lessons learned.
Living into purpose doesn’t happen by chance.
If you don't take control of your life, someone else's plan will drag you into mediocrity.
It takes bold moves, personal investment, and showing up for the hard realities that hold you back.
The last 30 years drove me deep into the hustle and grind for survival.
But the next 30 years? They’re dedicated to living into my full potential—and I'm bringing as many people along with me as possible.
I can’t want it for you more than you want it for yourself though.
Nobody’s coming to save you.
Having a trusted guide by your side can save you years, even decades, of struggle, but you still have to show up for you.
If you’ve ever felt trapped by self-doubt, burned by betrayal, or stuck in the routine of religion, I’ve been there—and I’m here to guide you through it.
I'm committed to dedicating the rest of life helping others experience the same freedom, power, and purpose I found. Whether through mentoring, writing, or speaking, my mission is to unite and equip a global movement of truth seekers and bold leaders to embrace their God-given identity and realize their full potential. I’m no longer the man who doubts whether he hears God’s voice. I’ve learned to trust that nudge, to walk in obedience, and to embrace the supernatural power that comes from walking with God. Now, I stand here inviting you to your own journey. You may feel ordinary, unsure, or stuck. But God has a fire waiting to ignite in your life—a calling that will change everything. All it takes is the courage to step forward, listen, and trust. The fire in that cabin wasn’t just for me—it’s a reminder for all of us that when we say yes to God, we step into the extraordinary.
WHY WOULD I LISTEN TO YOU?
Because I’ve helped dozens of men connect with God in a tangible way that led to breakthroughs in their marriages, fatherhood, and personal confidence.
I’ve seen marriages restored, fathers reconnect with their kids, and men step boldly into their purpose.
One father said he went from being disconnected with his wife and kids to becoming fully united and engaged.
Another man said he felt like he could feel himself standing taller with his renewed sense of confidence.
Through my mentoring program, I help others break free from self-doubt, rediscover their purpose, and align their lives with God’s Kingdom power.
Imagine living with unshakable confidence, knowing who you are, and walking boldly in your God-given authority.
Together, we’ll use The Outlier’s Way framework to help you:
Because I’ve been where you are—and I know what it takes to rebuild.
Whether you’ve hit rock bottom financially, relationally, mentally, or emotionally, I understand the struggle.
Maybe you’ve achieved financial success but still feel empty, unfulfilled, or disconnected from your family, your faith, or even yourself.
You might have the house, the cars, and the career, yet still feel like something’s missing—like you’re stuck in survival mode, going through the motions without truly living.
Maybe your relationships are strained, your mental health is suffering, or you’re burned out chasing a version of success that leaves you hollow.
There’s something powerful about hitting rock bottom.
It teaches you lessons success never could.
While failure might seem like a disqualifier, it’s actually the greatest teacher.
Every setback I’ve faced—whether in relationships, finances, or mental health—has given me the wisdom, clarity, and tools I use today to help others rebuild their lives with purpose.
I’ve trusted the wrong mentors, chased money instead of meaning, and lost sight of what truly matters.
But I’ve also rebuilt—stronger, clearer, and more fulfilled than ever before.
I wouldn’t trade my journey because it taught me this:
Success isn’t about working harder, earning more, or chasing perfection—it’s about having the right map.
When you have the right map, you know how to avoid the traps and potholes that lead to burnout, brokenness, and regret.
You stop drifting and start living intentionally, aligned with who you were created to be.
Because I’ve been where you are, and I’ve done it the WRONG way.
There’s something powerful about hitting rock bottom—it teaches you what nothing else can.
Some people might think failure disqualifies you, but the truth is, it equips you.
Ask anyone succeeding in life about their biggest lessons, and they’ll tell you those lessons came from their losses, not their wins.
I wouldn’t trade my journey for anything because every setback gave me the wisdom and clarity I have now.
LOOK AROUND
What I’ve Learned and How I Can Help You
Through my own struggles, I’ve discovered how to:
Struggling marriages.
Fathers disconnected from their children.
Insecurity and self-doubt stealing confidence.
Families torn apart by broken communication.
Children wrestling with identity and worth because of absent guidance.
Burnout from chasing hustle culture.
Betrayal and broken trust from people you thought you could count on.
Losing everything and starting over.
Struggling marriages.
Fathers disconnected from their children.
Insecurity and self-doubt stealing confidence.
Families torn apart by broken communication.
Children wrestling with identity and worth because of absent guidance.
Burnout from chasing hustle culture.
Betrayal and broken trust from people you thought you could count on.
Losing everything and starting over.
Restore broken relationships and create new, meaningful ones that align with purpose.
Create clarity and purpose when life felt like chaos.
Overcome burnout and restore balance.
Step into a life of meaning, confidence, and impact.
AND HERE'S WHAT I'VE LEARNED:
Fulfillment comes from alignment.
Alignment with your identity.
Alignment with your values.
Alignment with God’s purpose for your life.
It’s not about grinding harder—it’s about living smarter, with clarity, focus, and direction.
It's about hearing God's voice and learning how He communicates with you.
It's about seeking divine guidance rather than throwing darts at the wall hoping something will stick.
Whether you’re trying to fix your marriage, start over in a new one, reconnect with your kids, find peace in your mind, or rediscover what it means to truly live.
I CAN HELP YOU:
Break free from self-doubt and rediscover your identity.
Strengthen your relationships with family and others.
Align your life with God’s power for clarity, confidence, and peace.
Build daily habits that foster health, wealth, and fulfillment.
Step boldly into your God-given purpose and potential.
Those who’ve lived through these struggles and come out the other side are the ones who know what they’re talking about. They’re the ones who understand the potholes and pitfalls—and, most importantly, how to avoid them.
That’s why I’m here.
I KNOW THE MAP BECAUSE I'VE HIT THE ROCKS
Why You Should Listen
In life, faith, and family, I’ve hit more than my share of rocks.
I trusted the wrong mentors, chased money instead of God’s plan, and ran myself into the ground trying to prove I was enough.
But those failures taught me something most people never learn: SUCCESS ISN’T ABOUT WORKING HARDER; IT’S ABOUT HAVING THE RIGHT MAP.
When you know where the rocks are, you avoid them.
When you know the shortcuts, you go faster.
And when you align your life with God’s power, you go farther than you ever thought possible.
I know what it’s like to attend church and raise kids in church and still feel disconnected from God’s power in your everyday life.
This is what I teach.
Because I’ve been there. I’ve hit the bottom, and I’ve rebuilt from the ashes. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, and I know what it takes to move forward.
I’ve helped men reconnect with their families, strengthen their faith, and find confidence they didn’t know they had.
I’ve seen marriages restored, mental health renewed, and people rediscover their purpose.
If you’re tired of feeling stuck, empty, or unfulfilled, I want to help.
This isn’t about quick fixes or easy solutions. It’s about doing the work to rebuild your life from the inside out.
I help people build the map.
I help them connect with the power of God.
I help them discover their identity and unlock their potential.
Whether it’s your marriage, your spiritual walk, or even your business, you need someone who’s been through the battlefield and come out alive.
Through my mentoring program, I guide people to break free from self-doubt, rediscover their purpose, and align their lives with God’s Kingdom power.
Imagine living with unshakable confidence, knowing who you are, and walking boldly in your God-given authority.
What I Can’t Promise
I can’t promise overnight success.
I can’t promise everything will suddenly get easier.
WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE?
If you were going to war, who would you follow?
The polished, inexperienced officer fresh out of training with a shiny uniform?
Or the battle-tested warrior with blood on his hands, scars on his body, and a track record of victory?
I know who I’d choose. Every single time.
Because experience matters. And I’ve been there.
I’ve been betrayed by so-called Christian leaders and rebuilt after personal and financial ruin.
I’ve faced failure as a husband, a father, and a man—and I’ve found redemption by realigning with God’s plan.
I’ve walked through fire so I can guide you through yours.
Because I’ve helped dozens of men connect with God in a tangible way that led to breakthroughs in their marriages, fatherhood, and personal confidence.
I’ve seen marriages restored, fathers reconnect with their kids, and men step boldly into their purpose.
I’ve seen families restored, hearts healed, and men step into their God-given authority.
One father said he went from being disconnected with his wife and kids to becoming fully united and engaged.
Another man said he felt like he could feel himself standing taller with his renewed sense of confidence.
Together, we’ll use The Outlier’s Way framework to help you:
Help you connect with God daily and hear His voice clearly.
Create disciplined habits that build clarity and confidence.
Strengthen key areas of your life: identity, health, wealth, and relationships.
Equip you to live boldly in your God-given authority and purpose.
Through my own struggles, I’ve discovered how to rebuild from the ashes.
What I’ve learned can help you avoid the same pitfalls and step into a life of purpose, clarity, and power.
I’ve spent years helping people create clarity, restore balance, and align their lives with purpose.
Here's what I know:
I’ve been where you are.
I’ve built the map.
And I’m here to help you unlock your God-given potential.
This isn’t theory—it’s lived experience. It’s a battle-tested framework that works.
Are you ready to trust someone who's been there?
If so, let’s build your map and get you connected to the power of God.
FROM SUCCESS TO FULFILLMENT
Because I’ve helped dozens of men connect with God in a tangible way that led to breakthroughs in their marriages, fatherhood, and personal confidence.
I’ve seen marriages restored, fathers reconnect with their kids, and men step boldly into their purpose.
One father said he went from being disconnected with his wife and kids to becoming fully united and engaged.
Another man said he felt like he could feel himself standing taller with his renewed sense of confidence.
Through my mentoring program, I help others break free from self-doubt, rediscover their purpose, and align their lives with God’s Kingdom power.
Imagine living with unshakable confidence, knowing who you are, and walking boldly in your God-given authority.
Together, we’ll use The Outlier’s Way framework to help you:
You’ve achieved what most people only dream of.
Wealth. Fame. Recognition.
But late at night, when the applause fades, do you feel the void?
Do you wonder why all the success in the world still leaves you struggling in your marriage or searching for deeper connection with your wife?
You’ve built an empire, but the pressure to maintain it never lets up.
Every decision you make feels like it’s under a microscope—scrutinized by peers, partners, and the public.
Maybe you’ve been betrayed by mentors, let down by church leaders, or scarred by broken relationships—especially in your marriage.
Perhaps you feel stuck in the same arguments, disconnected from your wife, and unsure how to bridge the gap between providing for her needs and understanding her heart.
Or maybe you’re haunted by the fear that if the walls came down and she saw the real you, she wouldn’t stay.
I’ve been there.
The truth is, success without purpose is empty.
Wealth without peace at home is exhausting.
And a marriage without trust and emotional connection feels like a partnership on paper, not the covenant God intended.
You’re not alone. And you don’t have to stay here.
Because I’ve been where you are, and I’ve done it the WRONG way.
There’s something powerful about hitting rock bottom—it teaches you what nothing else can.
Some people might think failure disqualifies you, but the truth is, it equips you.
Ask anyone succeeding in life about their biggest lessons, and they’ll tell you those lessons came from their losses, not their wins.
I wouldn’t trade my journey for anything because every setback gave me the wisdom and clarity I have now.
LOOK AROUND
WHY MENTORING?
I know what it feels like to carry the weight of expectations, the pressure to perform, and the constant drive to achieve.
I’ve walked the road of building success while feeling disconnected from my wife, struggling to communicate, and wondering if my efforts were enough.
The truth? No amount of external success can replace the fulfillment of a healthy, thriving marriage.
When I finally allowed the painful death and rebirth of my identity to take place, and fully surrendered to God’s calling, everything changed.
I learned how to lead my marriage not just with provision but with presence. I learned to rebuild trust, rekindle intimacy, and align my role as a husband with God’s design for marriage.
Now, I’m here to guide you through that same process of transformation—a journey that doesn’t just help you win externally but brings internal freedom, emotionally fulfilling relationships, and unshakable peace in your marriage.
This isn’t about following a formula.
It’s about stepping boldly into your God-given identity, reclaiming your purpose, and learning how to build a marriage that thrives with love, trust, and partnership.
WHAT YOU’LL GAIN
Struggling marriages.
Fathers disconnected from their children.
Insecurity and self-doubt stealing confidence.
Families torn apart by broken communication.
Children wrestling with identity and worth because of absent guidance.
Burnout from chasing hustle culture.
Betrayal and broken trust from people you thought you could count on.
Losing everything and starting over.
Struggling marriages.
Fathers disconnected from their children.
Insecurity and self-doubt stealing confidence.
Families torn apart by broken communication.
Children wrestling with identity and worth because of absent guidance.
Burnout from chasing hustle culture.
Betrayal and broken trust from people you thought you could count on.
Losing everything and starting over.
Those who’ve lived through these struggles and come out the other side are the ones who know what they’re talking about. They’re the ones who understand the potholes and pitfalls—and, most importantly, how to avoid them.
That’s why I’m here.
I KNOW THE MAP BECAUSE I'VE HIT THE ROCKS
In life, faith, and family, I’ve hit more than my share of rocks.
I trusted the wrong mentors, chased money instead of God’s plan, and ran myself into the ground trying to prove I was enough.
But those failures taught me something most people never learn: SUCCESS ISN’T ABOUT WORKING HARDER; IT’S ABOUT HAVING THE RIGHT MAP.
When you know where the rocks are, you avoid them.
When you know the shortcuts, you go faster.
And when you align your life with God’s power, you go farther than you ever thought possible.
I know what it’s like to attend church and raise kids in church and still feel disconnected from God’s power in your everyday life.
This is what I teach.
I help people build the map.
I help them connect with the power of God.
I help them discover their identity and unlock their potential.
Whether it’s your marriage, your spiritual walk, or even your business, you need someone who’s been through the battlefield and come out alive.
Through my mentoring program, I guide people to break free from self-doubt, rediscover their purpose, and align their lives with God’s Kingdom power.
Imagine living with unshakable confidence, knowing who you are, and walking boldly in your God-given authority.
Clarity of Purpose: Understand the deeper "why" behind your life, aligning every decision with a purpose that fuels fulfillment and impact.
Authentic Leadership in Marriage: Learn how to lead your marriage with love, emotional presence, and trust. Build a legacy of strength and spiritual impact in your relationship.
Freedom from Hustle Culture: Break free from the performance-driven mindset. Learn to thrive in abundance through Kingdom principles that strengthen your family.
Healthy, Meaningful Relationships: Discover how to rebuild trust, restore emotional connection, and develop a marriage that reflects God’s love and truth.
Supernatural Encounters with God: Hear God’s voice, experience His power, and walk in a deeper relationship with Him than you ever thought possible.
WHO WOULD YOU CHOOSE?
If you were going to war, who would you follow?
The polished, inexperienced officer fresh out of training with a shiny uniform?
Or the battle-tested warrior with blood on his hands, scars on his body, and a track record of victory?
I know who I’d choose. Every single time.
Because experience matters. And I’ve been there.
I’ve been betrayed by so-called Christian leaders and rebuilt after personal and financial ruin.
I’ve faced failure as a husband, a father, and a man—and I’ve found redemption by realigning with God’s plan.
I’ve walked through fire so I can guide you through yours.
Because I’ve helped dozens of men connect with God in a tangible way that led to breakthroughs in their marriages, fatherhood, and personal confidence.
I’ve seen marriages restored, fathers reconnect with their kids, and men step boldly into their purpose.
I’ve seen families restored, hearts healed, and men step into their God-given authority.
One father said he went from being disconnected with his wife and kids to becoming fully united and engaged.
Another man said he felt like he could feel himself standing taller with his renewed sense of confidence.
Together, we’ll use The Outlier’s Way framework to help you:
Help you connect with God daily and hear His voice clearly.
Create disciplined habits that build clarity and confidence.
Strengthen key areas of your life: identity, health, wealth, and relationships.
Equip you to live boldly in your God-given authority and purpose.
Through my own struggles, I’ve discovered how to rebuild from the ashes.
What I’ve learned can help you avoid the same pitfalls and step into a life of purpose, clarity, and power.
I’ve spent years helping people create clarity, restore balance, and align their lives with purpose.
Here's what I know:
I’ve been where you are.
I’ve built the map.
And I’m here to help you unlock your God-given potential.
This isn’t theory—it’s lived experience. It’s a battle-tested framework that works.
Are you ready to trust someone who's been there?
If so, let’s build your map and get you connected to the power of God.
So What Exactly Can You Do For Me?
I’ll help you discover who you are and what you’re capable of in every area of your life.
I’ll help you connect with God and experience His power.
I’ll help you build a map so you don’t stay stuck in the same patterns, like drifting through your marriage or feeling disconnected from your kids.
It’s simple: I’ll help you see your blind spots and show you how to overcome them, so you can step boldly into the life you were created for.
HERE'S HOW I CAN HELP YOU:
Break free from self-doubt and rediscover your purpose.
Build stronger connections with your wife and kids.
Align your life with God’s power for clarity, confidence, and peace.
Overcome burnout and restore balance to your life.
Step boldly into your God-given identity and potential.
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Commit to the process, show up for yourself, and experience the life-changing impact of walking in your Kingdom purpose.
Chad Jeffers
Within seconds of meeting Trevor… his bold, honest, straightforward personality stands tall and you know that he means business. With his charismatic yet approachable presence, he is quick to give an encouraging word and a helping hand to anyone who asks. His love of God and how he treats others is a true testament that he is leading by example. He’s definitely a person that everyone needs in their life.
So, What’s Next?
This depends.
If you’re looking for quick fixes, easy solutions, or something free that you’ll never use, I’m not your guy.
The truth is, you’ve probably already tried all the “free and easy” advice out there, and it hasn’t worked.
That’s why you’re here—because deep down, you know there’s more, and I might be the mentor to help you get it.
Simple as that.
I help people FIND PURPOSE AND FULFILLMENT WHILE tapPING into the power of God.
If you’re looking for deeper purpose, stronger relationships, or a sense of fulfillment you’ve never known, I’d love to help.
It starts with a conversation.
Apply now, and let’s talk about how you can align your life with who you were created to be.
This is your time.
Let’s rebuild together.
Trevor
RESULTS LIKE:
Reconnecting with your wife and kids.
Stepping into your God-given identity and authority.
Building daily habits that actually work.
Restoring balance to your life.
If this is what you’re looking for, APPLY NOW, and let’s talk.
I DON’T WORK WITH EVERYONE.
I work with people who can honestly say: “I know I need help, and I’m ready for a map.”
Here’s why.
Fixing your marriage isn’t easy.
Rebuilding your confidence isn’t easy.
And mentoring with me? Definitely not easy.
I will push you to uncover truths you may not want to face and help you do the work to rebuild your life from the inside out.
WHAT I CAN AND CAN’T PROMISE
I CAN’T promise you wealth or overnight success.
I CAN’T promise you that everything will suddenly get easier.
But I CAN promise you this:
I will help you build a life aligned with your God-given purpose.
I will challenge the way you think and help you create lasting change.
I will show you how to step boldly into your identity and live with clarity, confidence, and balance.
This isn’t conventional, but it works—IF YOU WORK.
It’s possible to work less, earn more, and live a life of purpose–without the hustle and grind.
It’s possible to wake up with clarity and go to bed knowing you’ve given your family and yourself the best of you.
I know because I’ve lived it—and I’ve helped others do it too.
So if you’re ready, apply now, and let’s chat.
Trevor
THE NEXT STEP
This depends.
If you’re looking for quick fixes, easy solutions, or something free that you’ll never use, I’m not your guy.
The truth is, you’ve probably already tried all the “free and easy” advice out there, and it hasn’t worked.
That’s why you’re here—because deep down, you know there’s more, and I might be the mentor to help you get it.
Simple as that.
I help people FIND PURPOSE AND FULFILLMENT WHILE tapPING into the power of God.
APPLY FOR MENTORSHIP
This is an exclusive, high-value experience for a select few. Fill out a brief application so I can understand your goals and challenges.
Schedule a Call
If it’s a good fit, we’ll schedule a call to dive deeper into your transformation.
Step into Freedom
Step into Freedom
Commit to the process, show up for yourself, and experience the life-changing impact of walking in your Kingdom purpose.
ARE YOU READY TO BUILD YOUR LEGACY?
ARE YOU READY TO
BUILD YOUR LEGACY?
This isn’t just about your life—it’s about the legacy you leave behind.
Whether it’s your family, your team, or the masses who look to you for leadership, the choices you make today will echo for generations.
Kings make moves pawns won’t understand.
Apply now and let’s ignite the fire that will transform your life.
RESULTS LIKE:
Reconnecting with your wife and kids.
Stepping into your God-given identity and authority.
Building daily habits that actually work.
Restoring balance to your life.
If this is what you’re looking for, APPLY NOW, and let’s talk.
I DON’T WORK WITH EVERYONE.
I work with people who can honestly say: “I know I need help, and I’m ready for a map.”
Here’s why.
Fixing your marriage isn’t easy.
Rebuilding your confidence isn’t easy.
And mentoring with me? Definitely not easy.
I will push you to uncover truths you may not want to face and help you do the work to rebuild your life from the inside out.
WHAT I CAN AND CAN’T PROMISE
I CAN’T promise you wealth or overnight success.
I CAN’T promise you that everything will suddenly get easier.
But I CAN promise you this:
I will help you build a life aligned with your God-given purpose.
I will challenge the way you think and help you create lasting change.
I will show you how to step boldly into your identity and live with clarity, confidence, and balance.
This isn’t conventional, but it works—IF YOU WORK.
It’s possible to work less, earn more, and live a life of purpose–without the hustle and grind.
It’s possible to wake up with clarity and go to bed knowing you’ve given your family and yourself the best of you.
I know because I’ve lived it—and I’ve helped others do it too.
So if you’re ready, apply now, and let’s chat.
Trevor
BE EQUIPPED FOR LIFE
MEET TREVOR & BRIDGETT
Trevor and Bridgett Dunbar are the founders of The Outlier Brand, a lifestyle movement designed to empower young adults to break through limitations, harness their inner strength, and live with purpose in authentic connection to God.
Trevor, a retired lieutenant firefighter with 30 years of business experience across diverse industries, understands the resilience needed to overcome life's toughest challenges. Having faced bankruptcy, homelessness, and divorce, he is deeply committed to helping others find their footing and rise stronger. As a father of five, he embodies the principles of perseverance, leadership, and purposeful living.
Bridgett brings a dynamic blend of expertise in psychology, marriage and family therapy, and seminary training, alongside 15 years of leadership experience with young adults. Her personal journey, marked by the loss of a child and the challenges of divorce, gives her a compassionate edge in guiding others toward a life of meaning, growth, and fulfillment.
Together, Trevor and Bridgett are dedicated to equipping the next generation with the mindset, skills, and confidence to lead boldly and thrive in an ever-evolving world. Their mission is to inspire young adults to become resilient leaders who live authentically, powerfully, and purposefully in genuine connection with God — true Outliers!
TESTIMONIES
HEAR WHAT OTHERS HAVE TO SAY
HEAR WHAT OTHERS
HAVE TO SAY
Business, faith, family, technology, all things in my life that can use a fresh infusion of creativity and energy were touched and stirred up to become stronger and more fruitful. I highly recommend Trevor Dunbar as a coach and leader, I trust him as a brother and kingdom man.
Adam Schindler
Trevor Dunbar is a man who walks in success. Yet, with all this activity, Trevor has found that there is much, much more to life. It is found in a close and personal relationship with the living Lord Jesus Christ who lives in him and through him. This is what I’ve respected most about him in the nearly 20 years I’ve known him.
Scott McHugh
Trevor is the real deal. Honest, passionate, genuine, humble, intentional. His ability to see things in other people, things they can’t see yet, is a true gift. His love of God and pursuit of the Kingdom is unmatched. He is someone I definitely want in my corner.
Tom Hoffrage
Terry Sacka
Jeremy Myers
Greg Swafford
John Manuel
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THE OUTLIER BRAND
BE PURE. STAY SAVAGE. LIVE BOLDLY.
Be Pure. Stay Savage. Life Boldly.
HELLO OUTLIER!
Every Outlier needs guidance. Whether you’ve been let down by family, religion, or society, mentorship gives you the tools to rise above and live the life you were created for.
Outlier Mentorship is for young adults, ages 18-34, who are ready to reclaim their purpose and rewrite their story.
Are You Ready To RISE?
1 on 1 MENTORSHIP
INDIVIDUALIZED
Every Outlier needs guidance. Whether you’ve been let down by family, religion, or society, mentorship gives you the tools to rise above and live the life you were created for.
Outlier Mentorship is for young adults, ages 18-34, who are ready to reclaim their purpose and rewrite their story.
Are You Ready To RISE?
GROW IN LEADERSHIP
INTERNSHIP
Every Outlier needs guidance. Whether you’ve been let down by family, religion, or society, mentorship gives you the tools to rise above and live the life you were created for.
Outlier Mentorship is for young adults, ages 18-34, who are ready to reclaim their purpose and rewrite their story.
Are You Ready To RISE?
THE OUTLIER'S WAY
MEMBERSHIP
Every Outlier needs community. Whether you’ve been let down by family, religion, or society, mentorship gives you the tools to rise above and live the life you were created for.
Outlier Mentorship is for young adults, ages 18-34, who are ready to reclaim their purpose and rewrite their story.
Are You Ready To RISE?
